How would you describe your reflection?
If you're seeing lumps of misshapen sagging flesh when you look in the mirror, the long-term solution is to use a different mirror. Your physiognomy doesn't truly define you. Your character does.
The verb "to reflect" includes the definition "to think, to ponder." When we reflect on a topic we consider it deeply and reverently. We deserve to consider ourselves the same way, not just according to the shallow image offered by a material mirror.
The poignant video below puts true shape into proper perspective.